Have you ever dated or been in a relationship with a guy who seems to have everything under control only to find out that he is not the man you are expecting him to be – but a boy? Do you realize that being in a relationship with an emotionally immature guy is kinda hard?
How would you like to know that the guy you’re dating is mature enough to handle things and be a good partner? Can you spot an emotionally mature man? Do you know what an emotionally mature man looks like? Here are some helpful signs to watch for if you are dating a grown-up boy or a mature guy.
1. Emotionally mature men have no problems coming up with a decision about something. They do not stress themselves out in coming up with a decision because they know what they want.
An emotionally immature man cannot make up his mind and he keeps on stressing about their inability to decide.
2. Another sign of an emotionally mature man is being responsible and admitting that he is wrong. He does not point his fingers everytime something goes wrong.
3. One sign that you are dating a mature man is by observing his relationships. He tends to have close relationships with friends and family.
4. An emotionally mature man is not afraid to show his feelings. Though it does not meant that he just blurts out what he feels, he can explain his feelings and what he likes and does not like. A mature man can express his thoughts without being mad.
5. A mature guy is not afraid of commitment. You are able to spend quality time with him.
6. Shallow vs. Deep. When a guy has reached maturity, he has something meaningful to share with another person. He can share something about his life and has his own opinion to form. An emotionally immature man is just a surface and nothing else.
7. Having a stable job is another sign that the guy you’re dating has reached maturity.
8. An emotionally mature man has a plan with his life. He knows where he wants to be a few years from now and he plans for it in order to achieve his goals.
You deserve a lasting relationship with a guy who will treat you well. When you are involved with an immature guy and try to make it work, you might be in a lot of trouble and become immature as well – that is of course, unless you grow together as a couple and reach emotional maturity.
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